What’s the Story?

A simple photo, football boots, that is all they are really, but for me this photo means so much more!

These are Monkey’s first ‘proper studs’; he has been going to football training at school for a while and it was time for him (and us) to commit by getting him some boots.

They are mucky in this photo because it was taken yesterday after he arrived home form training,  he was so excited when he got home; as always he’d had a brilliant time, but there was something extra he wanted to tell me!


He had won a medal!

At the end of every session each trainer picks a child to be his ‘player of the week’. This is Monkey’s third ever medal – his first was a ‘player of the week’ one from a very early session for determination and the second came as everyone got one at the end of term.

But, for me the third medal is the most meaningful. This one was for scoring an awesome goal (which Daddy got to see, making it more special) and for always being the first to help others!

To him it means he is still doing well and the right things at training. To me it shows me he is growing in confidence.

He has been low on confidence for a while, we are not a hundred percent sure what knocked him, but something did. He went from a carefree little boy who was happy, who was kind to all and who knew he was bright (without being cocky), to a little boy who didn’t try as hard because he thought he would get it wrong; not just football, it was the same with other things at home and things in school (even maths, which he has always been awesome at).

Since half term something has clicked back into place, every morning the last thing I say is ‘you can do it’ and I think that this medal shows he is starting to believe he can!


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    • Mummy of Two on March 5, 2014 at 11:45
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    It is great that he has found his confidence again and you must be so proud he is doing so well!

    • Charly Dove on March 5, 2014 at 12:28
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    Oh wow Kel that’s fantastic! I was just enjoying a great post about his first studs when along came the medal. You must have been so proud especially given what it was for and how his confidence had dropped. That is brilliant. Daddy must have been chuffed too to see the goal. Great post, thank you so much for sharing with #whatsthestory (and apologies for being a bit late getting to you!)

    • Pippa Ainsworth on March 5, 2014 at 15:40
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    Ah, that’s so lovely Kel. Hope the new boots and your positive parenting continue to help his confidence!

    • Denise foster on March 5, 2014 at 21:01
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    Wow, so proud, well done Isaac. Love Nanny xxx

    • Jenny @ The Brick Castle on March 6, 2014 at 10:53
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    That’s brilliant – well done little fella! Cool boots too 🙂

    • Wicked World of Lucas on March 6, 2014 at 17:01
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    Fab – well done Monkey. Great goal!!! #whatsthestory

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